Self-love is action…it’s change. In this episode, we chat about reevaluating the goals you had for the year and being okay with letting go of things that aren’t serving the direction you want to go anymore.
I chatted with my mentor, James McGowan, who taught me about taking action towards your goals. This skill is now embedded in how I approach my self-love journey with even more intent. We’re here to remind you that goals don’t have to be unattainable and they should bring you joy.

Season One, Episode Five
One of the things I aim to redefine is how self-love appears to us early on. Defining self-love as action was something that made sense early on. You’re the one that ignites the self-love journey, and taking action is how you keep momentum.
Turning goals into habits
I love chatting with James about strategic career moves. We often forget how those same goals can be applied to our self-love journey. Sometimes we choose goals that serve us for a season, part of the self-love journey is deciding what feels right for you. It’s okay to change your goal if it no longer serves your new purpose.

A lovely conversation with James McGowan
We dive into some of our favorite YouTubers and books to help with goals this episode. Atomic Habits by James Clear is a great one! Once you start to take action towards your goals, habits start to form. Taking inventory of different areas of your life is a great way to kickstart your self-love journey.
Our conversation reminded me of a lovely letter that will encourage you to accept the challenge of going all in for self-love. Starting something is hard but once we choose ourselves, that’s when the magic starts to happen. Episode five reminds me to keep going, I hope it will give you the motivation to start something for you.
Check out S1E5!
Season two is coming soon, but if you need more lovely words to help guide your self-love journey, there are lovely gems waiting for you on the blog.
Whether you’re just starting your self-love journey or you’re in the middle of it, you’re not late or behind. The intent for this place was always to make you feel less alone.
If you’re in the middle of a new life chapter, know that you’re not doing anything wrong or choosing a wrong path. The path you choose will always lead you to where you’re meant to be. Trust the process and give yourself the opportunity to bet on something new, you never know where it will lead you.
The find a lovely life podcast is available on your favorite podcast platform and on YouTube. Check out episode five!
Catch up on season one!
Episode 20 | Self-Love Check-in: Loving Yourself in Transition – Find a Lovely Life: A Self-Love Journey Podcast
- Episode 20 | Self-Love Check-in: Loving Yourself in Transition
- Episode 19 | Self-Love Tool: How To Work With Winter In Your Self-Love Journey
- Episode 18 | Self-Love Check-in: Dive Into Your Transformation
- Episode 17 | Find A Lovely Book with Brittany Amara
- Episode 16 | Find A Lovely Book with Deena ElGenaidi


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